Sometimes things appear too late. Take life seriously, but not to the extent of not forgiving yourself. We can start over ...and try to do things better. But sometimes it's better to repair what we already have, especially if starting over means discarding all those around us whom we find as intolerable as others perhaps find us. And don't forget, most things that explode, don't merely hit the target, but shrapnel flies about, injuring many others.